Babies develop self-esteem by perceiving themselves through the eyes of their parents. Your children pick up on your words, body language, and facial emotions.
Observing children doing something well works better: "You made your bed without being asked—that's terrific!" "I was watching you play with your sister and noticed that you were very patient."
Every household need discipline. Discipline instills in children self-control and acceptable behavior. They may test your boundaries, but they require them to mature.
Parents appreciate making time for their children. Allow your children to participate in the planning of a weekly "special night" together. Fill your child's lunchbox with a letter.
Demonstrate to your children respect, friendliness, honesty, kindness, and tolerance. Don't be selfish. Help others selflessly. Thank you and congratulations.
Set your expectations. Explain the problem, express your opinions, and request assistance from your child. Include special effects. Provide alternatives. Accept your child's suggestions.
Changing the settings for children may have an impact on their behavior. Try changing your environment if you find yourself saying "no" to your 2-year-old. You'll both be happier as a result.
When facing your child, avoid accusing, condemning, or finding fault. Even when disciplining your children, remember to nourish and encourage them.
Recognize your abilities: "I am loving and dedicated." Promise to work on your flaws—"I need to be more consistent with my discipline." Be honest with yourself, your partner, and your children.